I can understand wanting to avoid having to use a cursor due to the overhead and inconvenience, but it looks like there's some serious cursor-phobia-mania going on where people are going to great lengths to avoid having to use one.
For example, one question asked how to do something obviously trivial with a cursor and the accepted answer proposed using a common table expression (CTE) recursive query with a recursive custom function, even though this limits the number of rows that could be processed to 32 (due to recursive function call limit in sql server). This strikes me as a terrible solution for system longevity, not to mention a tremendous effort just to avoid using a simple cursor.
What is the reason for this level of insane hatred? Has some 'noted authority' issued a fatwa against cursors? Does some unspeakable evil lurk in the heart of cursors that corrupts the morals of children or something?
Wiki question, more interested in the answer than the rep.
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SQL Server Fast Forward Cursors
EDIT: let me be more precise: I understand that cursors should not be used instead of normal relational operations; that is a no-brainer. What I don't understand is people going waaaaay out of their way to avoid cursors like they have cooties or something, even when a cursor is a simpler and/or more efficient solution. It's the irrational hatred that baffles me, not the obvious technical efficiencies.
Cursors tend to be used by beginning SQL developers in places where set-based operations would be better. Particularly when people learn SQL after learning a traditional programming language, the "iterate over these records" mentality tends to lead people to use cursors inappropriately.
Most serious SQL books include a chapter enjoining the use of cursors; well-written ones make it clear that cursors have their place but shouldn't be used for set-based operations.
There are obviously situations where cursors are the correct choice, or at least A correct choice.
Can you post that cursor example or link to the question? There's probably an even better way than a recursive CTE.
In addition to other comments, cursors when used improperly (which is often) cause unnecessary page/row locks.
You could have probably concluded your question after the second paragraph, rather than calling people "insane" simply because they have a different viewpoint than you do and otherwise trying to mock professionals who may have a very good reason for feeling the way that they do.
As to your question, while there are certainly situations where a cursor may be called for, in my experience developers decide that a cursor "must" be used FAR more often than is actually the case. The chance of someone erring on the side of too much use of cursors vs. not using them when they should is MUCH higher in my opinion.
There's an answer above which says "cursors are the SLOWEST way to access data inside SQL Server... cursors are over thirty times slower than set based alternatives."
This statement may be true under many circumstances, but as a blanket statement it's problematic. For example, I've made good use of cursors in situations where I want to perform an update or delete operation affecting many rows of a large table which is receiving constant production reads. Running a stored procedure which does these updates one row at a time ends up being faster than set-based operations, because the set-based operation conflicts with the read operation and ends up causing horrific locking problems (and may kill the production system entirely, in extreme cases).
In the absence of other database activity, set-based operations are universally faster. In production systems, it depends.
I agree with article on this page:
http://weblogs.sqlteam.com/jeffs/archive/2008/06/05/sql-server-cursor-removal.aspx
For what it's worth I have read that the "one" place a cursor will out perform its set-based counterpart is in a running total. Over a small table the speed of summing up the rows over the order by columns favors the set-based operation but as the table increases in row size the cursor will become faster because it can simply carry the running total value to the next pass of the loop. Now where you should do a running total is a different argument...