setValidators in custom control without from refer

i have created a custom input control. I don't want to create any custom validation. I want to use default required, minLength, maxLength etc.I know i can do like this

this.form.controls["firstName"].setValidators([Validators.minLength(1), Validators.maxLength(30)]);

but i can't send form reference from parent component. How can i use setValidator inside textbox component.

// input-box.component.ts    
    import { Component, Input, forwardRef } from '@angular/core';
    import { NG_VALUE_ACCESSOR, ControlValueAccessor } from '@angular/forms';


    @Component({
      selector: 'app-input-box',
      template:`<label >{{inputdata.label}}</label><br>
      <input type="text" required #textBox [value]="textValue" (keyup)="onChange($event.target.value)" />`,
      styleUrls: ['./input-box.component.less'],
      providers: [
        {
          provide: NG_VALUE_ACCESSOR,
          useExisting: forwardRef(() => InputBoxComponent),
          multi: true
        },
        /*{
          provide: NG_VALIDATORS,
          useExisting: forwardRef(() => InputBoxComponent),
          multi: true,
        }*/]
    })
    export class InputBoxComponent implements ControlValueAccessor {
      @Input() inputdata: any;
      private textValue: any = '';

      onChange(value) {
        this.textValue = value;
        this.propagrateChange(value);
      }

      private propagrateChange = (_: any) => { };

      writeValue(value: any) {
        if (this.inputdata.value) {
          this.textValue = this.inputdata.value;
          this.propagrateChange(this.inputdata.value);
        }

      }

      registerOnChange(fn: (value: any) => any) {
        this.propagrateChange = fn;
      }


      registerOnTouched() { }
    }

use in different component

<app-input-box  name="textBoxParent_{{index}}"  [inputdata]="goaldata"  ngModel ></app-input-box>

If you want to access the FormControl inside a class that wants to implement the ControlValueAccessor you have to change your usual implementation. You cannot register the class as ControlValueAccessor in the providers array AND inject the FormControl in the constructor. Because the FormControl will try to inject your class, and you will try to inject the control, which will create a circular dependency.

So the changes you need to make are as follows:

Remove NG_VALUE_ACCESSOR and NG_VALIDATORS from the providers array.

Inject NgControl in the constructor and set the control's ControlValueAccessor and Validators.

constructor(@Self() ngControl: NgControl) { 
   ngControl.valueAccessor = this;
   ngControl.setValidators([Validators.minLength(1), Validators.maxLength(30)]
   ngControl.updateValueAndValidity()
}

If you want to keep the validators specified by the consumer of your custom form component you need to modify the constructor to this:

constructor(@Self() ngControl: NgControl) { 
  const control = ngControl.control;

  let myValidators = [Validators.required, Validators.minLength(5)];
  let validators = control.validator
  ? [control.validator, ...myValidators]
  : myValidators;

  control.setValidators(validators)
  control.updateValueAndValidity();
}

Check out the whole process explained by Kara Erickson (angular core) at AngularConnect 2017. Link