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Remote Simulator to Windows option not exists
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I have been using Xamarin Remote iOS Simulator for Windows with Visual Studio Professional edition. Upon updating to the latest version of Xamarin for Visual Studio, I no longer see the option for remote simulator as mentioned here
Xamarin iOS Settings
The iOS Simulator is available for Visual Studio enterprise now.
The preview was available for everyone earlier
I fixed it with screen sharing using VNC Viewer. It is not for everyone, but I often had to go to mac and back to PC, it is more comfortable for me now. But I am considering to develop native apps, there is so many issues with xamarin and it wastes a lot of time again and again
One way to solve this problems is to downgrade your xamarin.
You can be using the 4.2 - Sep 26, 2016 version and the checkbutton still there.
You can do this using this tutorial:
https://kb.xamarin.com/customer/portal/articles/1699777-how-do-i-downgrade-to-an-older-version-of-xamarin-