R has pass-by-value semantics, which minimizes accidental side effects (a good thing). However, when code is organized into many functions/methods for reusability/readability/maintainability and when that code needs to manipulate large data structures through, e.g., big data frames, through a series of transformations/operations the pass-by-value semantics leads to a lot of copying of data around and much heap thrashing (a bad thing). For example, a data frame that takes 50Mb on the heap that is passed as a function parameter will be copied at a minimum the same number of times as the function call depth and the heap size at the bottom of the call stack will be N*50Mb. If the functions return a transformed/modified data frame from deep in the call chain then the copying goes up by another N.
The SO question What is the best way to avoid passing a data frame around? touches this topic but is phrased in a way that avoids directly asking the pass-by-reference question and the winning answer basically says, "yes, pass-by-value is how R works". That's not actually 100% accurate. R environments enable pass-by-reference semantics and OO frameworks such as proto use this capability extensively. For example, when a proto object is passed as a function argument, while its "magic wrapper" is passed by value, to the R developer the semantics are pass-by-reference.
It seems that passing a big data frame by reference would be a common problem and I'm wondering how others have approached it and whether there are any libraries that enable this. In my searching I have not discovered one.
If nothing is available, my approach would be to create a proto object that wraps a data frame. I would appreciate pointers about the syntactic sugar that should be added to this object to make it useful, e.g., overloading the $ and [[ operators, as well as any gotchas I should look out for. I'm not an R expert.
Bonus points for a type-agnostic pass-by-reference solution that integrates nicely with R, though my needs are exclusively with data frames.