Initially we have two AWS EC2 instances with node.js running behind a load balancer with sticky sessions. As the load increases more instances are added.
But we are facing problems with this approach. As out application is mainly for workshops, the load usually increases within a short period of time (workshop start) and every workshop participant has a sticky session with the first two instances and the new ones have almost none. Because of this the performance stays bad.
First thought was: let's disable the sticky sessions. But that destroys our websockets because they need sticky sessions (at least this is what i've read). Another problem is with decreasing load. Instances shut down and socket-connections also get lost.
Is there an approach to shift user-sessions between instances or get websockets work without sticky sessions (maybe with Redis)?