PostgreSQL drop constraint with unknown name

I have an SQL script that needs to drop several constraints and restore them at the end, but the constraint names are auto-generated and will be different each time the script is run.

I know how to get the constraint name from the table names, but it doesn't seem possible to use this information in the drop statement.

select conname from pg_constraint where
   conrelid = (select oid from pg_class where relname='table name')
   and confrelid = (select oid from pg_class where relname='reference table');

alter table something drop constraint (some subquery) is a syntax error.

Ideally I would like to get the constraint name and store it in a variable, but it doesn't seem that Postgres supports that and I can't make it work with psql \set.

Is this even possible?

To dynamically drop & recreate a foreign key constraint, you could wrap it all in a function or use the DO command:

DO
$body$
DECLARE
   _con text := (
      SELECT quote_ident(conname)
      FROM   pg_constraint
      WHERE  conrelid = 'myschema.mytable'::regclass
      AND    confrelid = 'myschema.myreftable'::regclass
      LIMIT 1 -- there could be multiple fk constraints. Deal with it ...
      );

BEGIN
   EXECUTE '
      ALTER TABLE wuchtel12.bet DROP CONSTRAINT ' || _con;

   -- do stuff here

   EXECUTE '
      ALTER TABLE myschema.mytable
      ADD CONSTRAINT ' || _con || ' FOREIGN KEY (col)
      REFERENCES myschema.myreftable (col)';
END
$body$

You must own the table to use ALTER TABLE.
Else you can create a function with LANGUAGE plpgsql SECURITY DEFINER (using the same body) and