SQL - Get value for a specific element in array

I asked this question few days ago, but it involves a bit deeper answer so it was suggested I create a brand new one, so here it goes...

Disclaimer: I cannot create any custom DB objects (functions, SP's, views etc.), so everything needs to be in-line inside a SQL query.

I'm querying Audit table which for the simplicity of this question has following fields:

AttributeMask
ChangedData
CreatedOn
ObjectId

Each record in a DB may have multiple Audit records associated with it. Every time a change is made to a DB record, it will create a record in the Audit table with specific ObjectID that will point to the source record, CreatedOn that will have a DateTime of the change, AttributeMask with list of AttributeId's that have been changed when SAVE was executed (note, there may be multiple fields changed at once) and ChangedData will actually have the data that's been changed (pre-changed values). One field can of course be changed multiple times and if it's the case, multiple Audit records for this field will exist (different CreatedOn values). I need to find what some (not all) fields from the source record looked like at a specific date.

I can run query below:

select a1.ChangeData as ChangedData1, a1.AttributeMask as AttributeMask2, a2.ChangeData as ChangedData2, a2.AttributeMask as AttributeMask2
from Table1 t
join audit a1 on a1.AuditId = 
(select top 1 a.auditid from audit a where a.objecttypecode = 3
and a.objectid = T.ObjectId
and a.AttributeMask like '%,10192,%'
and a.CreatedOn <= '8-16-2018'
order by a1.CreatedOn desc)
join audit a2 on a2.AuditId = 
(select top 1 a.auditid from audit a where a.objecttypecode = 3
and a.objectid = T.ObjectId
and a.AttributeMask like '%,10501,%'
and a.CreatedOn <= '8-16-2018'
order by a1.CreatedOn desc)
where t.ObjectID = SomeGuidValue

This query is looking for the latest change to 2 fields (10192 and 10501) which happened before 8-16-2018. It returns the following data (I added 3rd record to illustrate all possible cases):

ChangeData1 AttributeMask1  ChangeData2 AttributeMask2
NULL    NULL    True~~True~1904~~~15.8700000000~4760~30000~590~12000~0~390~1904~False~200~  ,10499,10604,10501,10436,10491,10490,10459,10099,10319,10253,10433,10031,10091,10020,10265,10008,10509,
~True~5.56~~House~~200000~  ,10030,10432,10435,197,10099,10192,198, False~1170~600~0~Complete~True~1770~    ,10501,10091,10008,10020,10570,10499,10253,10715,
~~~~200001~ ,10432,10435,197,10099,10192,198,   True~2~True~~0~~~100.0000000000~1~business,96838c4f-e63c-e011-9a14-78e7d1644f78~~0~~~~0~False~~1~   ,10499,10509,10501,10203,10436,10491,10490,10459,10099,10157,10253,10433,10715,10031,10091,10020,10265,10008,10319,10699,

This means that 1st record has change to field 10501 only, 2nd record has change to 10192 only and 3rd record has changes to both 10192 and 10501 fields.

AttributeMask field has comma delimited list of all FieldID's that have been changed (note that it starts and ends with comma). ChangedData field has tilde (~) delimited list of data that's been changed. Each entry in AttributeMask corresponds to entry in ChangedData. For example, if I wanted to see what data was in 10501 field in 1st record, I would need to determine what entry # 10501 is in AttributeMask field (it's #3 in the list) and then I would need to find out what data is in entry #3 in ChangedData field (it's TRUE) and if I wanted to see what was in 2nd record for Field 10192 I'd see what index it has in AttributeMask (it's #6) and its corresponding value in ChangedData field is 2000000. I need to somehow extract this data in the same query. I was helped with some samples on how this could be done, but I failed to ask the right question in the beginning (thought it would be simpler than explaining all this).

What I need this query to return is something like this:

ChangeData1 AttributeMask1  ChangeData2 AttributeMask2
NULL    NULL    TRUE    10501
200000  10192   FALSE   10501
200001  10192   TRUE    10501

I hope this is clear now.

As told in my comments you are better off to deal with a set, then working with a broader and broader list with name-numbered columns.

Try to provide your initial input set in the format like the following mockup table:

There is a running ID, your ObjectID, the code you are looking for and the both strings. I inserted the data as provided by you, but not side-by-side:

DECLARE @tbl TABLE(ID INT IDENTITY, CodeId INT,ObjectId INT,  ChangeData VARCHAR(1000), AttributeMask VARCHAR(1000));
INSERT INTO @tbl VALUES
 (10192,1,NULL,NULL)
    ,(10501,1,'True~~True~1904~~~15.8700000000~4760~30000~590~12000~0~390~1904~False~200~',',10499,10604,10501,10436,10491,10490,10459,10099,10319,10253,10433,10031,10091,10020,10265,10008,10509,')
,(10192,2,'~True~5.56~~House~~200000~',',10030,10432,10435,197,10099,10192,198,')
   ,(10501,2,'False~1170~600~0~Complete~True~1770~',',10501,10091,10008,10020,10570,10499,10253,10715,')
,(10192,3, '~~~~200001~',',10432,10435,197,10099,10192,198,')
   ,(10501,3,'True~2~True~~0~~~100.0000000000~1~business,96838c4f-e63c-e011-9a14-78e7d1644f78~~0~~~~0~False~~1~',',10499,10509,10501,10203,10436,10491,10490,10459,10099,10157,10253,10433,10715,10031,10091,10020,10265,10008,10319,10699,');

--The query will cast the strings to XML in order to grab into it by their position index
--Then all codes are taken and numbered as derived list.
--According to the found position the corresponding value is taken

SELECT t.ID 
      ,t.ObjectId
      ,t.CodeId
      ,t.ChangeData
      ,t.AttributeMask
      ,Casted.ValueXml.value('/x[sql:column("PartIndex")][1]','nvarchar(max)') ValueAtCode  
FROM @tbl t
CROSS APPLY
(
    SELECT CAST('<x>' + REPLACE(t.AttributeMask,',','</x><x>') + '</x>' AS XML).query('/x[text()]') AS CodeXml
          ,CAST('<x>' + REPLACE(t.ChangeData,'~','</x><x>') + '</x>' AS XML) AS ValueXml
) Casted
CROSS APPLY(
    SELECT ROW_NUMBER() OVER(ORDER BY (SELECT NULL)) AS PartIndex
          ,x.value('text()[1]','nvarchar(max)') AS CodePart
    FROM Casted.CodeXml.nodes('/x') A(x)
) CodeDerived
WHERE CodeDerived.CodePart=t.CodeId;

the result

ID  ObjectId    CodeId  ValueAtCode
2   1           10501   True
3   2           10192   
4   2           10501   False
5   3           10192   200001
6   3           10501   True

But this will be slooooow...

UPDATE

Your whole approach is not set-based. The following is completely untested, I don't have your database, but will point to a set-based solution.

DECLARE @Codes TABLE(CodeID INT);
INSERT INTO @Codes VALUES(10192),(10501);

select t.SomeIdOfYourMainTable
      ,c.CodeID
      ,a1.ChangeData
      ,a1.AttributeMask
from Table1 t
CROSS JOIN @Codes c --will repeat the result for each value in @Codes
CROSS APPLY
(
    select top 1 a.ChangeData
                ,a.AttributeMask             
    from [audit] a 
    where a.objecttypecode = 3
    and a.objectid = t.ObjectId
    and a.AttributeMask like CONCAT('%,',c.CodeID,',%')
    and a.CreatedOn <= '20180816' --use culture independant format!!!
    order by a.CreatedOn desc
) a1;

This allows you to insert as many codes as you want (no need to repeat any join) and it will return a set similar to my example above.

If you need further help with this: Please close this question and start a new question with a fully working, stand-alone MCVE to reproduce your case.