configure secure SSL Apache proxy

I'm trying to establish a proxy setup with apache that securely supports SSL all the way through:

Client   <-->   Proxy @ somehostname.com   <-->   Server @ 123.45.67.89

Note that my proxy server has a hostname, but the remote server does not. The SSL setup between clients and the proxy works fine with a letsencrypt setup. However, I am struggling to secure the connection between the proxy and the remote server.

Because the remote server doesn't have a hostname, and letsencrypt doesn't issue certificates for IPs only, my idea was to generate a self-signed certificate and copy the certificate over to the proxy for it to only trust that one. Unfortunately I don't know how.

If I just disable these certificate checks, the connection works, as the proxy just trusts every certificate:

SSLProxyCheckPeerCN off
SSLProxyCheckPeerName off

While encryption will work fine, to my understanding authenticity is compromised and I am subject to MitM attacks during the handshake. This is not ideal.

Instead, I've instructed Apache to trust my self-signed certificate with

SSLProxyCACertificateFile /path/to/cert.pem

and then tried to enforce a valid certificate with

SSLProxyVerify require

but despite me explicitly listing the certificate, and the documentation of SSLProxyCACertificateFile saying "These are used for Remote Server Authentication", it seems to not trust it.

Is there a way to make sure the connection between the proxy and remote server is safe, for example by enforcing Apache to always connect to the proxy using that specific certificate?

Turns out adding certificates via SSLProxyCACertificateFile does not skip name checks, which makes total sense. So in order for custom certificates to work, they still need to be issued to the correct name, or in my case, the IP. After I made a new certificate issued to that IP, my configuration works now. Here are the relevant parts:

<VirtualHost *:443>
    ServerName somehostname.com
    SSLProxyEngine On
    SSLProxyVerify require
    SSLProxyCACertificateFile /path/to/custom_cert.pem
    SSLProxyCheckPeerCN on  # or omit, default is on
    SSLProxyCheckPeerName on  # same
    ProxyPass / https://123.45.67.89/
    ProxyPassReverse / https://123.45.67.89/
</VirtualHost>